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Lowering sexual drive Nanonymous No.5938 [D][U][F][S][L][A][C] >>5942 >>5946 >>6459 >>6465
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Do anons know some good ways? I discovered not fapping results in me feeling a lot better. I took some break, but after a while failed and constantly relapse. Anything that isn't medicine, gore and and self-harming.

Nanonymous No.5939 [D][U][F] >>5940
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Drink 5 gallons of soy milk every day :^)
>failed and constantly relapse
Why do you relapse? Because you saw a hot girl on the street? Because you stumbled across porn online? Because you spontaneously thought sexual thoughts?

Nanonymous No.5940 [D] >>5941

>>5939
All of it.
Mainly my penis after few days gets aroused so much I can't bear it. I read shit amount of how porn damages brain but my instinct appears to be stronger. Even during break I watched fair amount of explicit anime with tons of fanservice, so maybe I never theoretically stopped watching porn.

Nanonymous No.5941 [D][U][F] >>5942 >>5944 >>6463
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>>5940
Well then, become chad and acquire a gf.

Nanonymous No.5942 [D][U][F] >>5944
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>>5938
>Anything that isn't medicine, gore and and self-harming.
Join The Church Of Symbioticism! Fapping is punishable by death if you're a member.

>>5941
>implying 3dgf will help reduce OP's horny levels
Maybe after marrying her.


Nanonymous No.5944 [D]

>>5941
Easier said than done anon.
>>5942
I'd rather do it at home. Punishing is counterproductive - humans get attracted to risky things. I fucking hate kikes for inventing this piece of shit.


Nanonymous No.5946 [D] >>5947

>>5938
Keep trying. Seriously everytime you fail get back up and try again. Until eventually you can resist your sexual urges. It takes patience. I would also suggest exercise and building up a healthier diet.

Nanonymous No.5947 [D][U][F] >>5949
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>>5946
I'm trying, I will never stop. No way.
My diet is fine, I don't eat candies chips etc. I only drink water and meals are prepared at home.
Nanochan is kike check captcha

Nanonymous No.5949 [D] >>5950 >>5967

>>5947
What if... your sex drive is normal? Just masturbate less if you think it wastes too much of your time and energy. Honestly this thread looks like an exaggeration of a non problem.

Nanonymous No.5950 [D]

>>5949
Fapping to real girls usually doesn't leave me empty but sooner or later I turn to porn. Happened few times, I told myself I'll fap to real things and hopefully stop at some point but NO, imagination plus internet takes control. I was surprised when I first succeeded longer than month, but withdrawal can happen even after years, like with drugs or alcohol.

Nanonymous No.5953 [D] >>5965

Practice.
I've also heard good things about cold showers.

Nanonymous No.5965 [D]

>>5953
Practicing, it's nice and refreshing but not much help.

Nanonymous No.5967 [D]

>>5949

Nanonymous No.5988 [D][U][F] >>6465
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>I want to be a masochist but I don't like pain
Why the fuck you can't restrict yourself to fapping 3x a week--no more no less evenly spaced. Sex is a biological need--it's not necessary for survival but I would say it's on the same level as clipping your nails when it gets too long, brushing your teeth, keeping your skin clean(showering), etc.. If you don't want to watch (((porn))) just fap to your imagination.

Nanonymous No.6398 [D]

I second this.


Nanonymous No.6459 [D][U][F]
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>>5938
how old are you? antidepressants might do the trick, but I don't know about anything otc.

but seriously, how old are you and why is your sex drive a problem?

Nanonymous No.6463 [D] >>6465

>>5941
This but unironically. I never felt the need to fap through the couple of months I had a gf though we didn't even have sex. I think your mind is on the "panic mode" as it subconsciously senses that your bloodline might end with you.

On what basis am I saying all of this? Because birthrates are inversely proportional with how developed a nation is, a subconscious instinct drives those living in poorer nations to reproduce more rapidly to ensure their genes make it in the vast, unforgiving world.

Nanonymous No.6465 [D] >>6466 >>6506

OP here, I fapped today and yesterday to imagination, focusing on touch rather than girls and I feel fine - no brainfog and other shit.
>>5938
>how old are you?
We're on Tor, anon. I'll just tell you I'm young.
>antidepressants might do the trick
No no no.
>>6463
>I think your mind is on the "panic mode" as it subconsciously senses that your bloodline might end with you
I'm actually scared I might never reproduce, though I don't think that's why. If I keep fapping for the sake of fapping, hopefully I will get bored with it and move on. Porn keeps one always aroused, it's like sniffing small portions of drug and expecting to quit.
>>5988
>Why the fuck you can't restrict yourself to fapping 3x a week
If it was easy I wouldn't make a thread. 3x a week is doable, but my aim is to stop completely. Longer break showed me I can function even better without it and that I'm somewhat happier with my life. I don't believe in superpowers and it's certainly not a meme because time when I didn't fap was truly great and chill, despite doing as usual. I never once idealized so much fapping like I do now.
Anyway thanks for replying, I want to be able to tell you I succeeded.


Nanonymous No.6466 [D] >>6469 >>6470

>>6465
Then find yourself a nice girl to rape. Hapase might fit the bill, she's cute and is the type that wouldn't report you to the police.

Nanonymous No.6469 [D] >>6506

>>6466
>Then find yourself a nice girl to have sex with
FTFY

Nanonymous No.6470 [D]

>>6466
I don't want to waste my life on few seconds of (((pleasure))), implying I do it correctly.

Nanonymous No.6491 [D] >>6498 >>6502

OP again, I failed. 3x in half an hour to porn.
I will not post every time I do something, I just want to tell you I'm suffering. I feel like a junkie bingeing to this shit.

Nanonymous No.6497 [D] >>6502 >>6948

I'm dealing with the very same shit right now. To try and combat this I'm redoing my computer setup. I'll reinstall OpenBSD, set up dwm rather than XFCE, compile everything from source, keep things terminal oriented except for game engines and emulators and use Links or Elinks as my web browser instead of Firefox, just like my setup back in the good old days. I had once been a hardcore minimalist and had little trouble combating this issue. While my room is still very minimal and free of crap, I've really let my computer setup go to shit.
Try to minimalise your room and your computer setup, or at least change your web browser to a more basic one, preferable without any Javascript support. I'll try to remember to post an update here in a few days.

Nanonymous No.6498 [D] >>6503

>>6491
Three times in half an hour is a lot. I haven't masturbated in about 5 days but I've been edging (masturbating without cumming) since yesterday and I finally came today. I've been masturbating pretty much the entire day for the last two days. I'm redoing my computer setup right now. Change your web browser to a basic old one.

Nanonymous No.6502 [D] >>6508

>>6497
Funny thing is that I installed Linux after 2 months of break and it was great decision. I'll try with minimalism as my room isn't really tidy.
>>6491
I tend to binge, which is bad. Also I don't think browser will make difference - I have furfox setup with js and ads blocked.

Nanonymous No.6503 [D]

Last reply was meant to >>6498

Nanonymous No.6506 [D][U][F]
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>>6465
>I'll just tell you I'm young.
You must be, if you can nut 3x in 30 minutes. It's not a solution to your problem now, but I can tell you it does get easier as you get older. I mean much older. Your 20s will still be a fog of red-mist lust. Men's T levels start to drop after 30, though.
>>6469
>Then find yourself a nice girl to rape
RFTFY

Nanonymous No.6508 [D]

>>6502
Tidying your room is good. If you have Linux rather than Windows then you can play around with more minimal window managers (IceWM or WindowMaker are a good start) instead of what you have installed right now.
I used to binge too, now I just have these draconian masturbation sessions that can easily be 4 to 6 hours long of me constantly jacking it to whatever dumb shit I can find online.
I'll try to find a large host list which blocks pornography as well. I'll post here when I find one.