>>113350
You're not pretty, so you need to look unique and interesting. There are many ways to achieve that, lots of different fashion styles that will make a certain % of men get hard for you even though you're fully clothed
pic rel does it for me but other men like goths, other men like menheras etc
Also if you want the sort of deep fulfillment and headpats, get some real relationships. Headpatting is something couples do, too lewd for anons!