sturdymin tells sico certain things pretaining to himself and she believes it because theres no one there to object to his falsity. and if sico had met up with sturdymin at ny con, you can bet she wouldve doxxed him right then and there. her mom wouldve gotten the police involved and have him arrested on the spot. to say hes some sort of casanova is false, he preys on young impressiable girls (12-13 yo) who do not know any better. he grooms underage girls as a serotonin power trip, but can never bring himself to ever meet up with them due to being an ogre

why do you think sico choose rando to be with instead of sturdymin? because sico has no idea what sturdymin looks like other than the false images he paints in her head. sturdymin is too afraid to ever show himself to any of the girls he grooms because he knows theyd run away