Anonymous 01/18/2026 (Sun) 13:47 No.171062 del
>>171061
>So making fun of her dad's death was part of helping her with her drug problems too then?
I never made fun of her late father. What happened, is early on when I was still very hurt and confused, I implied she'd rather party and travel than take care of her dying father. That's literally how it looked to me. It was fucked up of me to say, and I disavowed it all already and apologized as profusely as I know how. I was under the impression she just totally left. I later found out from her and her family that she was in fact able to take a trip top Arkansas with her mom to visit him one more time before he passed away.
>How about calling her a dumb bitch to her family and all over the internet.
No idea what you're talking about I never called her a dumb bitch to her family. I rarely said anything to her family except on two major occasions. The first was back in jan/feb 2025 when she was doing her hardcore suicide baiting. I talked to her uncle Don and found out that all her family was basically freaking out worrying about her. I wish I'd have kept talking to her family at that point. The second occasion was more recent and was when I finally had my eyes fully opened to the truth about her situation with drugs.

The wellness check I called? Turns out her family was in the process of calling one in and I beat them to it. Chanchan was being so crazy during this period that they were trying to wrangle and corral her into a facility to get help. That I think is what really made her take off and flee. She is utterly terrified of having to confront her demons.
>You also said if she OD's because of your "help" you you would be happy about it.
I never said this. I only said that if she did OD, at least she'd find the peace in death that eluded her in life. Chanchan dying is the last thing I want. I know shes strong enough to overcome all this shit. She just has to try.

Most of the problems between her and I could be solved with proper communication. Any time I tried to have adult conversations with her, she'd spaz out and tell me everything isn't about me.

Well fine chanchan, now everything is about you.