Women always look for status in a partner; even within the "nerd" niche, they will always prioritize owners or admins of large Discord servers, professional gamers, and major content creators. Even just working in the arts or entertainment industry grants status. Some examples that come to mind: being an artist at Riot Games, programming a renowned indie game, working in music production, or being a tattoo artist, DJ, or photographer. Even working remotely, traveling frequently, and posting photos of your travels on Instagram carries status.