>>192995
Her Dad was only strict in the sense of not buying her junk food which is something she ostensibly agreed with since she was bulimic and wouldn’t keep down the unhealthy food she craved. She would pretend he was poor and didn’t buy her food, but her fridge was always stocked. It’s not that she had more oversight there and the things you think occurred under her Mom happened even earlier at her Dad’s too. Your narrative is too dependent on taking her word seriously.