My goal was never to groom girls. I wanted to have a girlfriend who'd love me and who would eventually be the wife and mother of my children. The first girl I ever talked to with such intimacy was Vamp. She was BPD, NPD, like every other on the list. Truly, there are some regrets to certain girls. I should have treated them better. But to say they suffer cause of me is a lie. I was merely the straw that broke the camels back. I wont feel regret to women who broke up with me for stupid reasons. Complimenting a female friend and joking around with her isn't a reason for a break up, and only in the mind of someone with insecurity and mental illness could it possibly be. Especially when you consider they had 10x the male friends that i had for female friends.