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btw my mom wasnt perfect and no one is either and i dont expect anyone to be perfect.

but i genuinely am more attracted to what the person is actually like and their real personality that they mask because of societal stuff. like "men dont cry" is so bs, which was again, imposed by men! the big men said:
>all men should work, be strong, and earn money to look after their family only! thats the only thing they should focus onnnn!!! YESS MONEY MAKE MONEY MAKE ME MONEY I AM GETTING RICH LAYING ON MY ASS BECAUSE MEN BELOW MY TAX AMOUNT ARE STUPIT!
come to think of it this is how most "societal rules" in relationships, friendships, education, home, job... life in general, came to be

how come you do not know about ada lovelace?!
computers, softwares, programming was a "job for women" because it was kind of similar to doing phoneline work. grace hopper was a big help in wwII. im not discrediting turing ofc like hes a genius im not discreditng any men, im just talking about these because people know about how there were many great men, but not that many great women in history; completely trash the idea of accomplished women, which is more rare, because there are still countless houses where they are not allowed to work or go outside the house even!!!!
anyway, even until margeret hamilton who HANDWROTE the ENTIRE code for the software used in apollo 11 mission 1969, but she mustve started before that, the job was for women.
when the industry blew up, meaning there was money in the business, there were more men suddenly, and then it became a "mens job" and women just didnt know about them, huh

the reversed still applies. occupations that are generally associated women have lower pay in general, nurses, secretaries, etc. and god forbid they want to get in other jobs! most do not, and if they do, there is a huge chance they will get assaulted. 97%. fucking. women. report assault.
sureeee, "MOST" women lie about being assaulted because they want to relive and explain their trauma in front of many people sometimes more than once, because they just looove paying legal fees.
if you report it after the occassion, police wont believe you, without a medical report.
there is chance that your doctor wont believe you.
rather than women lying, why are there more men not believing?