>>9228
First girl has a masochism fetish. Fetishes are inherently sexual so obviously only people she's attracted to could fulfill the fetish. It's the same with men. Second girl is just retroactively coping with a situation she wishes she hadn't been in. She was with an shitty bf despite him not even being super attractive and she stayed with him for longer than she should have. She'd be saying this no matter how attractive he was anyway.

Neither have anything to do with stalking. If a man like being stalked just because a girl is doing it, that man is a fucking moron and a slave to his dick, and putting himself at risk for what he sees as an opportunity for pussy. No self respect or spine.