>>95315
Well, as a poster mentioned earlier today and given what we do know based on her exes accounts and her own actions, she does appear to lose respect and when shown emotional vulnerability. It's one thing to establish common ground and bond over shared trauma but it's an entirely different thing to actually behave emotionally vulnerable in her presence (crying, not in control of your emotions, hurt). She might subconsciously relate these acts to those of an emotionally weak person, which is directly related to her own trauma, equating them to being as weak as she was when she was the one getting bullied and abused, a version of herself that she hates, thus feeling repulsed by the people opening up to her in this manner.

Trauma is a very complex thing. It changes the brain in so many ways that doesn't always make sense, and the things that you might think scarred you could be the exact same things you subconsciously look for in others. She has publicly called out her father for being manipulative and neurotic, abusive and heartless. Yet her own actions show she's not that different in many aspects, and probably more revealing, you can find many of those same traits in the people she's had an emotional and sexual history with.