02/13/2021 (Sat) 23:49:48
>>995>They do comprehend the pleasure associated with sex whether its an 8 yr old or 14 yr old
There's a big difference between them which should be pointed out. One is normally primed for wanting sex by puberty so someone older doesn't need to insert anything strange and confusing for it to occur.>Thats why creating a relationship with the child is part of grooming
Real grooming is befriending a naive child with a sexual ulterior motive. You don't need to deceive teenagers into a relationship like you would with a child. It can all be straightforward with the minor knowing sex is associated with a relationship.>Idk if you recall the vocaroos that came out in 2016 of him screaming at Ann but it wasn't just a normal relationship by any means, alot of intense verbal and mental abuse.
I'm not fully versed on the story, but without context the situation you described could be abusive towards the older male despite their ages. >think grooming isnt wrong then idk how to explain any better tbh
Past puberty, most of the harm stems from how others interpret and react to what they consider a relationship with grooming. All it really comes down to is how "Ewwww" a relationship is to normies for it to be traumatizing/harmful.https://youtube.com/watch?v=aA30cz88eWE [Embed]
Take this contentious episode of an 18 yo with a fictional 15 yo for example. It's totally appropriate to most people and wouldn't be harmful for the younger person, but when people react as if it's abnormal/disgusting, it causes trauma/harm.