>>76946
>The bdsm / kink community is so draining

bdsm is how order-followers have sex. authority is such an essential part of their psyche that it grew into their sexuality; nothing outside of superior/inferior relationship makes any sense to them, they have left voluntary human interaction behind and have grown dependent on laws/rules/orders. they can no longer see people as equals, there always needs to be a leader otherwise nothing makes sense to them.

just normal sex with someone you are attracted to and like and have a physical/emotional connection with is not boring, it is effortlessly pleasant and fulfilling but because they can not have a real connection with other people, they have to act like they are all tough and normal sex is boring. that's not the case, they say that to divert from the fact that they are borken people unable to have genuine human connections...