>what's your plan? Well... If I tell you my plan then someone will snitch to bonbi! Or the filthy mods here will censor me because everything that involves the real world is considered a threat!
To be honest with you, I don't really have a plan. Action to resolve this situation is rather limited... I don't have any social media accounts so I can't really act directly either(forcing drama through her qna's etc.). I've mostly just been a spectator.
>she could help her make friends and get to know more people so she learns what healthy relationships look like. Impossible. Online friends are fruitless. For as long as she continues to stay couped up in her room, she will continue to slowly degenerate. And she doesn't have much long left... she was a mess to begin with (socially inept due to isolation). Perhaps this job she's working is a good start but even so, that requires little to no person to person interaction. Stacking shelves, what have you. Since she didn't experience the normal life (finishing school and extra curricular activities) she isn't a normal specimen.
>get even closer to the nonce Or that might be the wake up call. She will start to introspect why everything keeps going wrong for her... She will begin to lose it... she can't hack it... she'll shift the blame on whoever is left with her. And that's Seth. Then perhaps proper covert missions of directly communicating with the family will work... (depends on the dedication really). Do you know what the deadliest virus is? An idea... (Inception). Too bad, this idea will have a source... But if that source is an adult with a larger following and a (once) GREAT friend, it may stick.
>She should take responsibility for some of her actions Again, I pose the question. To what extent does she stop taking the responsibility? Hard question. Sorry. When do we draw the line between her being granted immunity, to her being guilty? I know you say she should take 'SOME' accountability, but can you specify?