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>but to help you understand where I'm comming from. An event that had the a pretty big impact on my life was the collapse of my social group of friends that I had since I was fairly young.
I don´t like putting my opinion on personal things when nobody calls, but alright,let´s jump into it.

>My friends all turned on each other ( and some of the parents too) slowly over the course of my first year of high school. It was downright strange how it happened and I was more of a bystander to it who got grazed some. I still try to wrap my head around the details but basically one of my friends suggested that we should help another who was in are social group, and another one of my friends took it in offense somehow.
People get turned on with the stupidest things and then you could find surprising that when they have reasons to be offended, they are still there.
The best kind of friendships are hold individually, not by social group. If you put them into one group, then one could plot into other for no apparent reason.
>I'm not going to go into details, but it was the strangest stupidest thing I had ever witnessed.
There are more stupid reasons out there sadly. There´s no need to enter into details but I am guessing something was in the mind of those two.

>People who I had know since I was five were acting downright out of character. Alliances we made and broken with the strangest part being that the two people who had started out against each other in the first place ended up on the same side.
Oh the ironies are much more common than you think. You have a very good reason for your distrust, considering that dirty move ended up without the consequences for those two and a mess for the rest. Yep, social toxicity.
>Never anything came up that made any sense to justify this. No SJW logic, no normal inter teenage drama that would allow me to look back on this and at least understand how.
The only thing that I could ask is what was in their minds when that event happened.Were they in private conversations with each other before and after? You may not know nor understand that but sometimes, when we are young, stupidity reaches its highest levels.
>There were so many points where it should have been put away by rational people, but no one behaved normally. It just seemed that everyone had gone crazy.
I have had several contacts which had several problems like yours. Betrayal and noticing how one person becomes innocent to a bad intentional. The teenage years are not that easy and I would qualify it as a test both socially and proffessionally. It puts you in a very different place from one year to another without warning.