Yes, there is a potential choice to be made for Yulya, SheShe isn't the "worship me" type though and also isn't the lecturing type. She's playing this mostly as herself and in that context, she doesn't lecture, she guides.
Remember that in all lore, the gods and goddesses fight and push different agendas, some are more strict than others, some are loving and patient and some are stern and punishing.
From what I researched about Eldath, I took her as less forgiving and more traditional with less leeway. She abhors violence for all but the most situationally necessary scenarios. That conflicts pretty heavily with the life of an adventurer in my mind. I wondered how other peace clerics handle it and after a little research and Yulya would have her work cut out for her especially if she's midline ot front line. Having only Cat as a front line could be difficult but not impossible. Then Yulya would necessarily do everything in her power to avoid conflict, disarm or bind enemies, and generally be very conflicted very often with someone like Ashley where her pets wouldn't "fight gently". Ashley herself would be fine considering she's pacifist by design, but you'd be asking a summoner not to summon, a Barbarian to make disarming blows, and whatever Alice is not to be Alice.
My advice would be to follow Freya's advice and then ask other clerics if you need further guidance.