>>76790
>For men to dance in public...
Just do capoeira, combat sports or just know actually go do Tango/Other trad dancing if your country has a scene. (If the goal is to get on with a chick or to show off go do that. Its never gay to dance legitimately but calling something like Skating dancing is gay as an excuse to skate. Just do what you want.) Most people my age and older were too cool for dancing however so we did martial arts and full contact sports instead if we wanted to look tough and cool for the chicks. (Unless we were built with genetics for bodybuilding we did that.)