>>9264
like that other anon said, different triggers for different people, but I think it might also be the mindset. Maybe you watch those and try to find the feeling that you heard exists and you imagine to be one thing, and then you don't get it and get frustrated.
The way I discovered how ASMR actually feels like is I found some of asmr videos relaxing. When I downloaded particular one for listening in bed before sleep at one point it hit me really hard and I had the most intense tingles to date, but it lasted for like 2 seconds. From now one though I knew what kind of feeling asmr is supposed to trigger and while I never repeated the same reaction like that one time, I still get tingly from some sounds.