>>65494thank you for your vow to stay single, the dating pool is already a poisoned well as is. this is very thoughtful of you
jokes aside, in all seriousness you’re perpetuating the same stereotype that made you feel this way. which is, the stereotype that all women are flimsy whores who don’t care about you
for that proverbial woman to exist, there needs to be a constantly angry virgin who feels entitled to sex and can’t deal with being unlikable but can’t find a way to fix it
do you like being described as that? because that’s what you’re going to be described as by any woman who sees you saying anything like this
it’s getting tiring seeing this constant battle of the sexes where one side says women are all worthless holes with zero personality and women say men are all angry stalkers who only have sex in mind
anyone who isn’t intentionally shitty or refusing mental health treatment is chasing a real relationship where you can love and feel love back because it’s the best feeling in the world. men are drawn towards feeling loved, wanted and feeling like they have importance and permanence, and having someone express that they see this and they appreciate it. women are drawn towards taking care of others and developing intricate and vulnerable friendships and relationships, and making the things around them beautiful
all it takes is one bad event for someone to start interpreting these as men being angry and wanting control, or women being vain and being desperate for attention. it’s perspective and blanket assumptions are NPC behavior
both stereotypes fucking suck. people are complex. you’re probably more complex than you give yourself credit for. but if you don’t extend that sentiment to everyone else, it goes from having a concept and sense of self worth to having a narcissistic complex
people are much more than two-dimensional personalities that can be explained in a paragraph. if you start treating them as such, you’ll get the same back. you might think you have already, but you haven’t
might not like this advice but it’s an objective truth. if you minimize people to three sentence descriptions, you deserve to have the same done to you and you might not like what they say back to you
be nice to each other you retards and maybe one day we won’t need this depressing misery trap hellhole of a forum board
of course some people are irredeemably shitty so there are exceptions but this is thankfully the minority